We often seek happiness, purpose, and meaning. PERMA, a framework developed by psychologist Martin Seligman, provides a roadmap for achieving lasting well-being. Let’s dive into each component:
1. Positive Emotions (P)
Positive emotions are the building blocks of happiness. Cultivate joy, gratitude, love, and awe. Start your day with a smile, savor small pleasures, and express appreciation. Remember, happiness is not just the absence of negativity; it’s the presence of positivity.
2. Engagement (E)
Engagement refers to being “in the flow.” It’s that feeling when time flies because you’re fully absorbed in an activity. Discover your passions, pursue hobbies, and challenge yourself. Whether it’s painting, coding, or dancing, find your flow.
3. Relationships
Strong social connections contribute significantly to well-being. Nurture meaningful relationships with family, friends, and colleagues. Invest time in deep conversations, active listening, and acts of kindness. Remember, quality matters more than quantity.
4. Meaning (M)
Seek purpose and meaning in your life. What gives your existence significance? It could be your work, volunteering, or creative pursuits. Reflect on your values and align your actions with them. When you find purpose, life gains depth.
5. Accomplishment (A)
Achievement and growth lead to a sense of accomplishment. Set realistic goals, break them down into smaller steps, and celebrate progress. Whether it’s acing an exam, finishing a project, or running a marathon, acknowledge your achievements.
Putting It All Together
Remember that PERMA isn’t about perfection; it’s about progress. Embrace imperfections, learn from setbacks, and adapt.
Why not do a pathology test for ‘absence’ of any of the five elements?
You might stumble upon the ‘secret’ of flourishing !!!
The Blueprint for Flourishing
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