“DISAPPOINTMENT REQUIRES CAREFUL PLANNING”

No other quote influenced me this much. Profound.

Reflecting on the statement brings forth a novel realization, for the simple reason that the end result of feeling or getting ‘disappointment’ is, in fact, our own doing. This means that we have the absolute choice and control over whether or not to feel to get disappointed.

Many times, we overlook the presence of a choice before allowing disappointment as the outcome.

It underscores the immense influence we wield over our own emotional landscape. Disappointment or motivation often stemming from our subconscious choices and beliefs, serves as a stark reminder of our innate power to shape our experiences.

Within the recesses of our subconscious lies a vast reservoir of potential, akin to a warehouse stocked with possibilities. Yet, this warehouse can also harbor shadows of self-sabotage, waiting to be illuminated by conscious negotiation.

In this journey of self-reflection, we confront a pivotal choice: to linger in the depths of doubt and negativity or to brave the path of optimism and resilience. The decision lies within us, shaping the trajectory of our inner landscape.

As we navigate the intricacies, we unveil the art of negotiation—charting a course towards self-awareness and unlocking the boundless potential within.
In this exploration of self, may we embrace the profound wisdom that lies in the depths of our own being, and may we navigate with grace and intention.
It could be a solo trip or a guided expedition.

Coaching is a guided expedition to a client’s own depths, very similar to the role of ‘sherpas’ in Himalayan expeditions. Coaches leverage their expertise, experience, and resilience to navigate the challenges, but the journey has to be made by the ‘coachee’ themselves.

Isn’t it true that disappointment is indeed our own conspiracy?